Hello guys, today I was triggered and I'll talking Clarity in Dating. Yes, I know you people like relationship gist, "tori" and amebo bit c'mon, who doesn't 😂.

If you're old here you know I love love, if you're new, welcome. I'm a little bit invested in 3 of my friends relationships like they reached out to me, we prayed, talked about it and now we're waiting for marriage. Helping people understand love and just being a part gives me joy. Yes I'm not perfect and we learn everyday but I just want everyone to get this love thing right cause only then is it truly beautiful.

I hit a friend up to check if status has moved and she hits me with the below: "what does he mean when he calls me babe and trust me to reply"

You people,

All these near success relationships; we almost got into a relationship is not "we are in a relationship"

CLARITY IS SO AMAZING. Knowing without a doubt someone wants you and expresses it to you without mincing words is beautiful.

This 2021, please, people must come correct. I say this while laughing and gingered because we been dey there.

Ask those questions, make that tough decision. Heart break never tire you?or you like to dey cry? Doing marriage duties for boyfriend or girlfriend... Oga you go buy bone straight tire, madam, you'll most likely knack for 3 years without clarity. The only thing you'll be getting is "let's see how it goes". Tell the person to go and survey the journey and come back when they're ready.

Infact, Ladies, yes, I don't think I'll ever understand the concept of a guy asking you out and you'll say give me time with the mindset of "let me form small" You'll form into continuous singleness my darling and go back to shouting God when and putting fire emojis under boo'ed up posts on the gram.

It's hard guys, but I think the pain of striving to get it right is worth it in the end. As opposed to going through cycles of tears and pain and wishing people love and light.

This year, make up your mind that PEOPLE MEETING YOU MUST COME CORRECT!

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