I know many Pagan parents who feel strongly about not imposing their religion on their children but who still want to be able to share their faith in a meaningful way. It's a really important issue because participation in religious activity is important socially, in terms of identity and can be a big part of how we relate to our families. At the same time, a lot of us feel that religion should be something you choose, not something you have done to you.
There are a lot of things you can meaningfully share as a Pagan parent without getting into the issue of belief.
Nature studies of any kind are a meaningful thing to share with a child. Spend time outside, get to know the nature in your area, teach love and respect for the natural world and introduce your child to the wonder of wild things. Encourage them to treat wild things and places kindly and not to see nature as just another thing to use and consume.
Celebrating the cycle of the seasons. Most Pagan festivals have something to do with the seasons and/or agriculture, so you can celebrate festivals by focusing on those aspects.
Learning about myths, legends, cultures and folklore. Most Pagan paths draw heavily on Pagan literature from the past, so it makes sense to introduce children to lots of stories from different times and cultures. You can also visit museums, and places in the landscape where history is visible. Tell your own family stories if that works for you.
Talk about religions - if your child has some idea of what religions are and how a few of them work, then they have a context for thinking about Paganism. There's a lot of diversity within Paganism, and giving your children chances to see some of that is a really good idea. Talking about belief without asserting that you have a monopoly on truth gives your children more scope to make their own sense of things.
If you're successfully raising a child as a Pagan, they won't just parrot what you say. They'll have awkward questions, their own ideas, a desire to do things on their terms. They'll argue and have different priorities to you, and they will be wary of authority. Very much like adult Pagans, in fact!
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