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Site logo image Nimue Brown posted: " As a busker, I've stood in the street many times with a hat on the ground in front of me for people to throw coins into while I sing or play music. It's not exactly begging, and it's not exactly transactional work and it might be gift economy. People who" Druid Life

Passing your hat round

Nimue Brown

Sep 24

As a busker, I've stood in the street many times with a hat on the ground in front of me for people to throw coins into while I sing or play music. It's not exactly begging, and it's not exactly transactional work and it might be gift economy. People who like what I do throw in a few coins and hopefully we all have a better sort of day as a consequence.

Putting your hat out online is in some ways similar. Be it a virtual tip jar, a ko-fi account, or Patreon, or a funding site… if you're a person who makes stuff and shares it, this can be a good way to go. The internet is full of free stuff, but making content has a cost - time, energy, electricity. 

For some of us, it's a challenge because it feels too much like begging. There will be people who treat it as asking for something for nothing, with no regard for what kind of busking gig you have. Putting your hat out means asking people to take you seriously and to value what you do. That's also a vulnerable place to be, because if people don't respond in ways you find affirming, it can feel really exposed. Putting out the hat also acknowledges that you aren't selling a million books every year, or whatever it is that you do, and that's a vulnerable move, too. It can feel an awful lot like asking for help, and many of us aren't good at that, either.

If you're going to put your hat out for coins, you need to feel confident that you're doing something people will value. Ideally you need to have done enough of whatever it is to have people feel invested in you, and to prove that you're serious and can keep going. If you're asking for ongoing support - as with the Patreon model - it's really important that you can keep putting things into the world. People are unlikely to keep supporting you if they don't feel satisfied by what they get out of that. Mutual respect is a really key part of this process.

If you're considering tossing coins in someone's hat, let me add that small donations are worth a lot. Most creators are financially marginal, and the price of a cup of coffee makes a difference. Even the creators you may believe should be doing well probably aren't. The vast majority of creative people working professionally are just scraping by at best, working other jobs or depending on other sources of money. This is not a get-rich-quick scheme, it's more a trying not to starve while making nice things scheme. 

Coins tossed in the hat aren't just useful financial support. It's also incredibly validating to be supported in doing whatever it is you do. It's a very loud round of applause. For the same reasons, it's a really good thing to leave likes, reviews, and other kinds of positive feedback. Most of the creative people I know are anxious folk half convinced that everything they do is terrible and unworthy. A few words from a fan can be life changing.

I have ko-fi and Patreon, and if you like what I do, your support is greatly appreciated.

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