His house is necessarily large, to accommodate translators, teachers, and inquirers. He has apartments consecrated especially to prayer and praise, to reading the word of God, and to preaching the glad tidings of the kingdom. He is visited by all sorts of persons, from all parts of the country, at all hours of the day. And ought not his family to be a pattern of whatsoever things are lovely, honest, and of good report? Ought not his family to exhibit all that comfort, and order, and neatness, and harmony, and purity, and frugality, and punctuality, and wisdom, and piety, and good sense, and well-formed habits, for which the domestic constitution is so happily designed?

In short, should not his family be such that it may be referred to by the whole community as a specimen of what a Christian and well- regulated family ought to be? But whether such a beautiful example be exhibited in the family of the missionary, or not, turns chiefly on the point whether ' she looketh well to the ways of her household.' Nor can she procure the assistance of any one to divide with her the care and responsibility of all this. With you the thing is easy; with her, beyond the bounds of possibility. Poetry and eloquence in America may sing a rapturous song and tell a thrilling story about her future labors, but she will find, after all, that her most important duties are those which are too common to be celebrated in song, and too humble to procure renown.

Customs are Oriental

" And, besides, she comes to a country where the customs are Oriental, where the sphere of woman has from time immemorial been much more limited than with us in America, and where she will get little credit to herself by going out of what even the Bible itself seems to recognize as her proper sphere. The people of the country are quick-sighted. They are by no means unapt at quoting Scripture, whenever they can make it answer their purpose.

And they will not be able to see how her zeal is according to knowledge, if she neglect her own in providing for others. They will not be able to see how she is fit to be trusted with the children of others, if she does not appear to know how to manage her own; nor how she can be capable of teaching them their duty to God, if she fail in teaching them how to conduct themselves in the presence of their fellow-men. And you must know that much more attention is usually paid to dress and manners here than in America."

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