I've been reading a book that has really got me thinking. The book is "The Hands of the Emperor" by Victoria Goddard. I'm not going to recommend the book. The author's view on sexuality does not line up with the Biblical standard and she did not have very good editing, but despite all that the book gripped me. I didn't want to put it down.
I have learned to start being curious about things that grip me, so I made myself stop reading and ask the question, what emptiness in myself is being filled? And I realized the reason I was so enthralled was because it deals with a friendship of nonequals. The friendship between the emperor and his secretary, actually, his right-hand man.
Lately I have really been puzzling over the fact that Jesus calls us friends.
No longer do I call you servants, for the servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all that I have heard from my Father I have made known to you. John 15:15
Different praise and worship songs have latched onto this idea and I find myself singing about being a friend of God in church and it really makes me pause. How is it possible to be friends with God? He is God. I am human. Creator, created. Master, servant.
In the book, the author focuses on the fact that the emperor does not want to be emperor. He wants to be just a simple man like everyone else. And in the end of the book series, the two friends have achieved a type of equality. But that is not how God works. He is God. The book of Revelation describes the elders casting their crowns before the throne and worshipping God in all his splendor. Worship is obviously a part of our relationship with God.
John 13:13 says,
You call me 'Teacher' and 'Lord,' and rightly so, for that is what I am.
But Jesus says this right after he has washed his disciples feet. And then calls on them to follow his example of being a servant.
We have this word, "condescend" which we usually use in a negative way. When someone is being condescending it means they are looking down on us. But the real meaning is "to willingly lower oneself to another's level". And that is what Jesus does. He condescends to call us friend.
In the book the secretary is an amazing character. Heroic. He's mind-bogglingly efficient and able to change the world with his work. And I found myself thinking, well, yes, maybe God could be friends with people who are amazing, like Moses, and David. But me? While I am content with who I am and the role I play in this world, I also know that my role is confined to my family and community. I am not a world-stage player. I don't want to be.
The New Testament has different kinds of analogies for the church. The body, vessels. All implying that we have our own role to play, and some roles are big and obvious and some are small and unnoticeable, but we all work together for one purpose.
I was thinking about myself as a vessel. Something God created for a purpose. I understand a lot of my purpose. Be a good wife, raise my family, try to be someone who lifts up and encourages whoever I am in community with. Draw near to God…And be Jesus' friend? It feels presumptuous. Encroaching. Not humble. I find myself pulling back from the idea.
I don't think I have settled this completely in my mind, but I'll tell you where I have ended up for now. God created me. He knows me completely. A lot better than I know myself. I love God. I want to be with him. He is truly what I live for. I don't know all the reasons he created me. I don't know all the purposes he has for me. I just know that I want all of it. I want every gift and talent he's given me to be used. I want every opportunity he puts in my path to be taken advantage of. I want every relationship he's opened up for me to happen. I want it all. And if "friendship with God" is on the list of things he has purposed for me, then I want it. My hands are open, ready to receive. And I'm excited to see what happens.
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