The Three Pianos

Suzanne

Aug 16

Whoops. My last post made it sound like moving is imminent, but the Big Day is still a few weeks out. Womp, womp. Of course, while it may seem like the moving process is dragging out indefinitely (which it is, in many ways), it feels extremely urgent and present in my life.

For one thing, the packing seems like it will never be done in time! My husband and I spent all last weekend packing, and we cleared out a) the guest room and b) The Piece. THAT'S IT. I have been packing and packing and packing for weeks now. We have made three separate special trips to the dump to divest ourselves of trash (SO FAR). I have been to Goodwill a half dozen times. And yet, outside of a pervasive and mildly disturbing smell of cardboard, our home remains virtually unaffected.

I am pretty sure all we need to do is remove the art from the walls and we're good to go? Although there are a few things left in the closet.

The Piece looks so sad, divested of its treasures.

The Piece held the contents of ALL FOUR of these boxes. Plus a bunch of vases and candles that we threw away/donated. It sure holds a TON of crap I mean precious treasures!!!!

How do we have so much STUFF?

In addition to packing, I am really struggling with all the logistics. There are so many things to schedule, from home repairs in our current house to moderate renovations in the new house. Plus, it's the end of summer, so there are all sorts of School Is Starting Soon appointments and commitments and meetings. And Carla is done with camp but not yet in school all day. It also happens to be one of the busiest times of year for me workwise, so I have projects and meetings and deadlines.

I like to think I am fairly well-organized, but this is stretching the limits of this particular skill set. Because I am just one person, and I can unfortunately only be in one place at a time. It seems like most of my non-packing, non-working time lately is spent with my calendar open on both my computer and my phone, trying to figure out where to squeeze in the next thing I have to do.

Here is a perfect example of the kind of logistical knot I keep finding myself in: The Three Pianos.

Piano #1: My husband and I possess a baby grand piano, which was a very generous hand-me-down from his parents. This is the same piano that lived in my husband's house when he was growing up. I play the piano, so does my husband, and Carla (who has not yet taken piano lessons) likes to pick out songs on the keys. I grew up in a house with a piano and I am going to keep this piano for as long as I possibly can, even if I have to someday convert it into a bed so that it can fit into the confines of my room in the assisted living facility. So obviously this piano is coming with us to the new house. My husband and I have designated a room in our new house as The Piano Room. (It is supposed to be a formal dining room, but considering we have only ever used our current dining room for doing puzzles, we prefer dedicating a room to the piano and some cozy chairs and hosting all meals in our kitchen.)
Piano #2: The sellers of our new house had a lovely upright piano. My father plays the piano and when he and my mom moved to our region, they were looking for a piano for their new house… so we arranged to buy the one from the sellers on behalf of my parents.
Piano #3: My husband and I are also in possession of an electric piano. It is a full size piano that has a really nice, rich sound and has keys with a realistic feel to them. (But it also has other instrument settings, so you can change it to sound like a harpsichord.)You can hook headphones into it while you play and supposedly it connects via Midi to a computer, so it has a lot of useful technology. (My husband suggested at one point that we put it in Carla's new room, so she could play it at her leisure... which sounds awesome, honestly. However, my husband also has a full size keyboard that he uses for producing music, so it's not like my child won't have a technology-compatible piano should she require it, yes I realize she is VERY spoiled.) (We have too many instruments in our house, but on the plus side, our house is full of music!) For the past few years, the electric piano has been sitting unused in our basement. We are donating this piano to a local school.

So here we have three pianos. None of the pianos currently lives in the place where it needs to end up. Part of my job is to get each piano to its new home. (Let's say for the sake or argument and also true-to-lifeness that my husband is not available to help with any of this because he is at work.)

Piano #1 cannot go to the new house until the floors have been redone. We cannot move it ourselves and have to hire piano movers.
Piano #2 needs to go to my parents' house, and it needs to be out of the new house before the flooring people arrive to redo the floors. But we cannot get it out of the new house until the sellers move out, which they have not done yet. (They negotiated extra time as part of our contract.) We cannot move this piano ourselves and have to hire piano movers. I have to be at the new house to give the movers access to the piano and then I have to be at my parents' house to accept the piano. The new house is 25 minutes away from my current house; my parents' house is 30 minutes away from the new house. One piano mover chargers more to pick up/deliver the pianos separately; one piano mover charges a flat per-piano fee so at least that makes it easy to choose but I had to make lots of calls to figure this all out.
Piano #3 needs to go to the local school. We can move this piano ourselves, because I can fit it in my vehicle. My husband will help me load the piano into my vehicle the night before I need to deliver it, but I cannot fit both the piano and my daughter in the vehicle at the same time. The person who can accept the piano is only available Tuesday through Thursday, but on each of those days I have to drive my daughter to an appointment.

Two of the three pianos. Looks like we're about to host a dueling pianos event.

It's like one of those logic puzzles with the complex grids you have to fill out until each option only has one right answer. I used to LOVE doing those logic puzzles when I was a kid. NOT SO MUCH ANYMORE.

This particular piano logic problem seems to be semi-resolved, at least. But where I cross off one logic problem, another pops up in its place! We've got windows repairs and roof repairs and school drop-off and cleaning people and final walkthroughs and another call week and haircuts and orthodontist appointments and PTA meetings and our very last block party and and and.

These are certainly not problems problems. Everything is fine, everything is good. And there will be a time after this. But right now, it is occupying ALL of my brain space.