I was struck this week by this powerful post about daily practice, routines and needs - https://therivercrow.wordpress.com/2022/08/22/august-update/ such that I felt it was worth me chipping in.
So many pieces of writing on Paganism and Druidry advocate for a daily practice or for specific kinds of activity. Not everything works the same way for everyone and there should be no shame or unease in doing things that work for you and avoiding things that don't. Some of us need routines to function at all, and some of us find them stressful and unworkable. Honouring nature means honouring nature where it manifests in you which in turn means not trying to force yourself to be something you are not.
It's all too easy for people who don't struggle with things to conclude that said things are fine and everyone can do them. At this point I'm largely convinced that phrases like 'everyone can' or 'everyone should' are strong indicators that the person writing the piece has little awareness of how diverse people are. I'm pretty sure that there is nothing that everyone can or should do in any specific way.
There are two key questions to consider when it comes to how you do your Druidry. Firstly, what does your Druidry do for the world? And secondly, what does your Druidry do for you? The answer to the first question needs to be some form of good, and it can be any form of good. The second answer needs to be about how you are affected, be that in body, heart, mind or spirit. Your druidic practice should give you comfort, inspiration, a sense of purpose, or relationship or connectedness. Some of those things, or all of those things. There may well be other good things that you find in your Druidry, but I think these are the core qualities to look for.
It is worth trying things a few times before deciding how or if they work for you. It's often difficult to make a good decision about something when you've had little experience of it. At the same time, it is not the case that there's any merit in slogging away at something that leaves you cold and does nothing for you just because you've been persuaded that you have to do it to be a good Druid. If you get a strong feeling of aversion to something at the first try, there's no reason to make yourself uncomfortable by revisiting it.
It's also worth noting that there's a lot of variety within any given practice and a lot of room to do things on your own terms. If what one writer or teacher has to say on the subject doesn't work for you, then it may be worth looking around for other inspiration and possibilities. It's also worth considering exploring things on your own terms. Every Pagan practice out there is something someone figured out, and the people doing the figuring out were not massively more qualified to do that than you are. If you're willing to put in the time exploring and experimenting, then you are going to become an expert in the thing you are doing.
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